T H E G O L D E N R U L E for life is that are no golden rules. There cannot be. Life is so vast, so immense, so strange, so mysterious, it cannot be reduced to a rule or a maxim. All maxims fall short, are too small; they cannot...
How can you know the other?
You can love, and through love this miracle happens.
If you love the other, great understanding arises on its own.
Not that you try to understand the other : You simply love the other as he or she is, with no judgement.